Uncle Steve



On June 21st, a drunk driver took the life of our dear friend and neighbor, Steve Wolkoff. We're heartbroken that Viv will not have the opportunity to get to know this incredible person that we loved so much.

We are sending all our love and positive energy to Steve's partner, Cindy, who was seriously injured in the accident.

Steve's family has established a foundation to honor his memory by funding some of the causes that were important to him. For more information, visit SteveandCindy.wordpress.com

These photos were taken by Cindy earlier this year. She and Steve were Vivian's first babysitters.

Mmmm Carrots!

Finally Vivian is eating solid foods.

We've tried feeding her solid foods for months and at most she'd try a nibble of sweet potato here, a bite of avocado there. Not much interest. But in the past week she seems to have decided that a liquid diet is just not cutting the mustard. So far Cheetos and Haagen Dazs are her favorites. Along with carrots and Cheerios. She HATES peas... just like her dad. I wish we had a shot of the face she makes after a spoonful of peas -- a combination of regret, disappointment and repulsion.

Moving is hard work


Ten days in SF was the perfect amount of time to pack our stuff, say our goodbyes and enjoy this beautiful town one last time before moving. The hardest part was leaving Vivian behind, especially during Mother's Day. Myryah's first Mother's Day and no Vivian! But the cool thing was when we took the bikes out to ride through Golden Gate Park to the beach, and on the way we stopped to visit our friends Jules, Christian and their baby, Audren. Jules explained that she was feeling nauseous and Myryah insisted that we buy an EPT. Well, the test came out positive and we were there to witness it... on Mother's Day, no less. Pretty cool.

It took us 3 days to pack the truck with the help of 2 laborers. Fortunately, one of them named Anthony had experience working on the Oakland docks, which gave us piece of mind that everything would be packed properly. The other one, an 80lb Latino wonder named Ceasar Chavez (really!), never spoke a word (I think he was mute), but was as strong as an ox. Both very hard workers and well worth their wages.

After several days of visiting folks we made it back to Brooklyn in time to receive the truck. It was a day late. But that was okay because it gave us a chance to clean the empty apartment and deal with the hook-ups. The moving company gave us 4 hours to unload the truck, but it took us 6. I had 3 guys helping me, and Myryah directed them as they entered the apartment while tending to Vivian. We saved the 9-foot solid oak table for last. It was too big to fit in the elevator so all four of us pushed it up 4 flights of stairs. The thing must weigh around 300 lbs! We actually lost track of what floor we were on, passed our level and hit the door to the roof... which tripped the alarm! We were hot, tired and exhausted and yelling at each other as we stumbled back down to the 5th floor. Despite a few minor rub marks and scratches, everything made it in one piece, including one 5 ft round mirror.

Tour de Midwest


We made a mad dash from Maryland to Indiana and Michigan to visit my family before heading to Brooklyn to meet up with the trailer filled with our worldly possessions. It was our first road trip in our new ride -- a 2001 Prius we bought from our dear friend B. I'm not sure what was more exciting, our MPG or seeing MJV (Maggie, Joe and Veronica). Probably the latter, but I sure was stoked about getting close to 50 miles per gallon...

Our first stop was the Karbans in South Bend, IN to check out their splendid new house. We're so happy for them! It's a spacious brick beauty with a large backyard featuring an enormous oak tree. The house has a great warmth to it. I know my sis and her family will be very happy there.

M, J and V are wonderful, thoughtful cousins to Viv. Always wanting to hold her, hug her, and help out. Maggie was a little jealous -- on more than one occasion she said: "I'm littler than Vivian." Maybe she was referring to the size of their heads?

Next stop Tom and Jo's in MI. We had some beers and BBQ on the back deck and John read to us while Tommy charmed us with that Shea wit. I can't imagine trying to do schoolwork in such a resort-like setting -- I'm sure the post-schoolwork sundaes helped. We spent a day and a half with my Mom and Dad, but unfortunately didn't take any photos. Vivian came down with a 102 temp and was not her charming, flirtatious self. I guess that's why the camera never came out. Sorry Mom and Dad!

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